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The ADHD Household, Not the ADHD Kid

A practical field guide for ADHD parents raising ADHD kids

For parents whose brain works like their child's.

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Important notice

This is an educational book. It explains what published research and expert guidance suggest, and how the ideas can be applied. It is not medical, psychological, legal or financial advice, it does not diagnose or treat any condition, and it is not a substitute for a qualified professional who knows your circumstances. If you are concerned about your own or a child's health, speak to a clinician.

The problem

Almost all the advice about ADHD children is written as though the child is the only one in the house with ADHD. If you are the parent with ADHD too, the advice asks you to run a system with the exact executive function it assumes you have.

What it does

  • Names the two-brain problem plainly, without blaming either brain
  • Gives one rhythm a household can actually run, instead of a routine that lasts three days
  • Scripts the flashpoints — mornings, homework, bedtime — before they happen
  • Shows how to keep a record that gets taken seriously at school and in appointments

What is inside

  1. Map the Two Brains in Your House
  2. Build One Rhythm That Fits Both Brains
  3. Write the Scripts Before the Flashpoints
  4. Run the Family Meeting That Changes the House
  5. Handle the Outside World Without Shrinking
  6. Build the File That Gets You Taken Seriously

Who it is for

  • Parents with ADHD raising a child with ADHD
  • Parents who have read the standard advice and found it assumes a brain they do not have
  • Parents who want something to run tonight, not a theory

Who it is not for

  • Anyone looking for a diagnosis — that is a clinician's job
  • Parents seeking medical advice about medication or treatment
  • Anyone wanting a long academic review of the literature

Where it comes from

Draws on 97 published sources — guidance, systematic reviews, trials and studies — all listed in the book with the address each one was retrieved from, so any claim can be checked at its origin. Where the research is thin or unsettled, the book says so.

The authors and institutions cited have not reviewed, approved or endorsed this book and are not affiliated with us.

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